Today I wanted to talk about something we all struggle with: managing competing priorities and the various roles we play in our lives. It can be a real challenge, right? 

Here’s the thing: when I focus on one thing at a time, I usually rock it! You know that feeling when you’re totally killing it as a mum or when you’re in the zone at work? Yeah, those moments are awesome. But the real danger zone creeps in when I try to juggle multiple roles simultaneously. That’s when things go pear shaped. 

I’ve taken a deep dive on this topic in this episode of How to Run a Successful Business (and still have a life!) because it’s a conversation I’m really passionate about. 

People often talk about balance as if it’s something we can magically achieve. But let’s face it, wearing multiple hats and managing them all “perfectly” isn’t realistic! 

As we start a new financial year, I want to challenge you to find ways to separate your various identities and roles. Give yourself the space and time to be the best version of yourself in each role without letting them overlap too much. 

I get it; there will be times when it’s impossible to avoid the overlap. Life happens. I might have to bring my kids to work or deal with unexpected work emergencies during family time. It’s during these moments that I need to divide and conquer. I acknowledge that it’s not ideal and I give myself a break. I’m doing my very best, and that’s all anyone can ask for.

Trust me, I’ve had those days where I beat myself up about unfinished to-do lists, messy kitchens, and being late for everything. But then I remind myself I’m human, and tomorrow is a brand new day. 

We’ve been conditioned to believe that multitasking is the way to go, but truth be told, it’s not as productive as we think. So here’s the secret sauce: be fully present in each role. It’s about finding ways to be in the moment and giving your undivided attention. 

By learning to separate our identities and wearing one hat at a time, you’ll regain a sense of control. Say goodbye to burnout! You won’t be constantly spread thin, trying to be everything for everyone. 

But I won’t sugarcoat it—setting boundaries can be tough, especially if you’re a natural people-pleaser or a self-proclaimed “giver.” It’s time to prioritise self-care and communicate your needs effectively.

Boundaries are only half the equation, though. The other half is open communication with the people around you. Whether it’s at work or home, let them know about your boundaries and specific needs. That way, we’re all on the same page, and tasks flow more smoothly. Share your availability and limitations, whether it’s designated work hours or the need for uninterrupted family time.

I want you to be able to embrace all the amazing hats you wear in life. Just remember to focus on one at a time. You deserve to prioritise and have boundaries. You’ve got this!